It starts with a familiar voice, crying or panicked: an accident, an arrest, a lost wallet abroad. The voice sounds exactly right, because it was copied from a video posted online. These calls are known as “grandparent scams”, and AI voice cloning has made them far more convincing. Five signs give them away.
It’s urgent, and it’s a secret
“Don’t tell Mom.” “I need it in the next hour.” Pressure and secrecy are there to stop you calling anyone who could check.
The number is new or hidden
“I lost my phone, this is my friend’s number.” A new number is the first thing a scammer has to explain.
“A real emergency survives a two-minute call back.”
They want gift cards, a wire or crypto
No police station, hospital or lawyer asks to be paid in gift cards or cryptocurrency, and nobody legitimate sends a courier to collect cash from your door.
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AI copies how someone sounds, not what they know. Ask something only the real person would know, like the name of a childhood pet.
A “lawyer” or “officer” takes over
A second voice adds authority and keeps you on the line. It’s part of the script, and they may insist you stay on the phone while you go to the bank.
Make a plan tonight
Sit down with Grandma for ten minutes. Choose a code word, write the family’s real numbers on a card by the phone, and practise saying “I’ll call you back.” If money has already been sent, call the bank or card company straight away, then report it.
Sources: FTC: Family emergency scams · FBI: Elder fraud. In the US, report scams at ReportFraud.ftc.gov.
Would you know what to do?
What would Grandma say if the call came tonight?
Could she check a suspicious message herself?
Does she know what never to type into AI?
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