Most grandparents don’t need a course. They need one good first try, with someone beside them, that ends with a useful answer. Here’s that first try, in five steps that work the same in ChatGPT, Gemini, Claude and Copilot.
Pick one free app
ChatGPT, Gemini, Claude and Copilot all have free versions that work on a phone. They do the same basic job: you write, they reply. Pick one and leave the rest for later.
Make the words big first
Before anything else, turn up the text size so every reply is easy to read. Then open the app and sign in together.
“You can’t break it. The worst that happens is a reply you don’t like, and you just ask again.”
Send the first prompt
A prompt is just a request. Start with something small and real, like a thank-you note. Type it, or tap the microphone on the keyboard and say it.
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The first reply is a draft. The magic moment is when Grandma asks for something different, in the same chat, and it simply happens.
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What to try next
Would you know what to do?
What will she try on day two?
Could she make a birthday card picture with AI?
Would she spot a fake "Grandma, it's me" message?
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